When I was fresh out of college, it was
time to start my career as an educator. I was very passionate about the
game of basketball, and that was part of the reason I wanted to teach
and coach. I had passion for the game. I still love it today and look
forward to the start of college basketball season.
But while I had passion, I didn't necessarily have a strong or clear purpose. I was just finding my way.
Although passion is great, we can be
passionate about things that lack significance. We can be passionate
about a game. We can be passionate about cars, or coffee, or even movies. Certainly, there's nothing wrong with passion and enthusiasm
for these things. But it's not something with inherently larger meaning
or significance.
Purpose, on the other hand, is about
having a mission. It's about living a life of meaning and significance
in a very intentional way. I'm defining purpose here as something that transcends what we do and becomes more about who we are.
It's not what you do, it's why you do it.
Your true purpose isn't limited to one
role in particular. I can carry out my purpose through my role as a
principal, or as a dad, or as a writer through blogging or writing
books. I can carry out my purpose in whole variety of ways. I can also
carry it out in casual conversations with just about anyone I meet.
While I am passionate about being a professor, who I am
is much bigger than my profession. My overarching purpose is much
bigger than my title. Don't get me wrong, being a professor is one of
the most rewarding ways I get to share my purpose. I love it.
But my why is still much bigger.
My why is to help others grow
their own capacity and find their personal path of purpose. A purpose
that has power adds value to people. It focuses on making things better
for others.
My passions may change over time, but for the most part, I believe my purpose will only grow stronger.
There are so many reasons to live out your purpose...
1. No one can take away your purpose.
Some things we are passionate about might be taken from us. Don't build
your foundation on something you might lose.
2. Your purpose is usually developed,
not discovered. We grow into our purpose. It doesn't just arrive like
the mail is delivered. It's grown like the largest tree in your back
yard.
3. You won't be fulfilled if you aren't
fulfilling your purpose. You'll be restless and uneasy and searching for
meaning. So many people are searching for happiness and what they
really desire is purpose.
4. Apathy is no match for true purpose. The key to motivation is to know your why.
5. When you connect with people who
share your purpose, it's electrifying. You feel understood and
energized. It's like doubling the voltage.
6. When you have a strong sense of purpose, obstacles are no match for your persistence and perseverance.
7. Your purpose will give you a sense of
peace. You'll know you're doing exactly what you're supposed to be
doing when you're living out your purpose.
What are your thoughts on living
with a sense of purpose? How can we help our students find meaning and
significance? How can we help them find a path of purpose? I want to
hear from you.
Magnificent as usual my dear brother
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